You should just ask yourself: if nobody, no human in this world judged me, what I would do and who I would become.
What food would I eat, what clothes would I be dressed in, would I do makeup, what job would I like to do. How would I spend my free time? Try to ask this and thousands of other questions and you will understand what does your real life look like. And how do become closer to yourself.
And I'm so sorry for kids. They are so little and so stupid. They don't have their own position. And they listen to what their parents tell them. They listen to their teachers, friends, they listen to society and to people on the internet.
Poor kids, they are too stupid to find the truth through themselves and through the world. And mostly all our life we are too stupid to listen to smth that deserves it.