Like many divorced people I don't have much time for my ex; our divorce was unpleasant, long, expensive; her acrimonious attitude and real desire to cripple me financially seemed to be her primary motivation despite the fact that we had kids to deal with, college to plan for and, like most middle class people, not enough money. The divorce took several years and was final a few years ago but we still have no relationship or communication beyond what's necessary for the kids. I'm OK with that, I don't want more. It's been getting better but that really just means that we're civil and the anger is subsiding. At least that was the case until last week. We were discussing something on the phone, logistics for the next weekend if I recall...