February 6, 2020

The importance of real talking

I have never thought about special talking techniques to improve social connections.

Moreover, I was very skeptical about the articles which prescribed people the right recipe for talking.

But if we look around we see that our world is a virtual and important skill of communication that could be lost. People forget how to talk with each other in a healthy way, how to build a real relationship because there are many services which help us to do it without talking in real life.

Is it good or bad? Difficult to say. Our world is so fast and every second is valuable, so, from the one side, it is cool to have such easy apps which help us to find the right girl or boy to spend time funny. On the other side, it seems like a social disaster, because many people want to live in real life and want to build healthy relations using an old-fashioned method like to talk with somebody in the street or meet somebody in the library without special apps.

Unfortunately, they faced with pity reality of the Tinder - time when most of the girls and boys prefer to make their choice of friends or partners based on the pre-installed criteria of the Tinder. Such people ( who are spending their time in Tinder) are not able to talk right in real life with real people, they think in another way.

So, maybe such naive phrases which were described in the article and these articles with cute advises how to talk pretty good, will be helpful for such people to start talking with each other in the real-life, to meet people on the street, cafes, libraries, to build health relation, to create family, to be true and free from the modern trends.