December 10, 2019

A man must ... A woman should ...

A man must ...
Must feed his family, love wife, help to his parents, protect his country, be a great friend, and what else? Maybe something forgot?

A woman should ...
To care for herself, to be the guardian of the hearth, to serve as a joy, to love everyone and everything, but to have dignity, but not to be an upstart, and more ... And more ... And else one more. So just a little.

It is not strange that many people stoke for equality, for the fact that "no one owes anyone", but only in this case they often forgot about themselves.

For example, men who respect feminists (not those who are simply topless), but who believe that, say, they must pay for dinner. Yes, the girls have the right to work and earn even more, they will be glad, but how can He not pay, he is a gentleman, he may even be offended a little, for offering the opposite.

Or a girl: "A woman should not be a domestic slave, she has work and her own life, a man cannot use her like that!"

But when you ask her:
“And who is cleaning up?”-“Me". "And do all the cooking?”-“Me".

"And washing / ironing?”-“Also me". "Have you suggested it to your husband?” “Why? He’ll mess it up, anyway - I'm woman I should do this”.

How can we support the idea, absolutely without introducing it, isn’t it strange?

I think many of us can find such mistakes in ourselves, I often find it personally, you just have to take a closer look.

So am I struggling with stereotypes or just fooling myself?

And what do you think?

#makeachange