HW 2

Majority of parents try to support their kids and make them confidence on themselves. You can often hear that parents are telling their kids that they can do anything by hardworking. Is this message has good affect on children? What are the pros and cons of this message?

Let's start from pros that are really a lot. But I want to highlight some of them. I want to start with a kids motivation. When he gets support from the most significant person on their life, he will become really cherry and energised. It can push him to do his best and work hard. Also, they will know that somebody is confident on thier skills and potential. Thus, they will be more productive on their school life and self-development. Second benefit of this message is improving relationship between the parents and a child. Every pleasant message that were directed to somebody will make the relationship between them stronger.

But still, the medal has opposite side that can be really unpleasant. Firstly, I want to tell that very strong confidence can give reversed affect. It can be kid's dissapointment on themselves. If they will think that they are hardworking but there is no result, child can give up. It causes loss of confidence. To protect a kid from it, parents should give more support. Because oral support is not enough. The second possible thing, is that after fail, a kid will think that parents lied to him/her and it will ruin child's trust to their parents.

In conclusion, parents should give more support to their children that are raising and developing. Mostly, message support is not enough. That is why supporting actions are really good thing to do. They can protect them from depression that can be borned because of the fail. Thus, children will develop better and faster.