Shayx Muhammad Sodiqning “Baxtiyor oila”si || “Happy family” of the Sheikh Muhammad Sadik
English 🇬🇧 below ⏬👇
“Odamni tuproqdan yaratgan va sokinlik topishi uchun undan o’z juftini yaratgan hamda ularning nikoh orqali oila qurib yashashlarini iroda qilgan Qodir va Hakiym Allohga U Zotning jaloliga yarasha hamdu sanolar bo’lsin!”
Kitob yuqorida keltirilgan nafis so’zlar bilan boshlanib, oila qurish va uni munosib saqlash borasidagi barcha jabhalarni ikr-chikirlarigacha qamrab olib, nafaqat diniy -islomiy, balki amaliy, strategik, psixologik ko’rsatmalar beradi-ki, uni amalda qo’llagan har kim inshaalloh koni foyda topadi. Taloq mavzusi shunchalik keng va batafsil yoritilganki, uning mas’uliyatini, javobgarligini chindan tushunib, his qilgan har qanday kishi “taloq” so’zini og’ziga olish u yoqda tursin, xayoliga ham keltirmaydi.
Kitobdan ba’zi iqtiboslar 👇⏬
“Nikoh bo’lmasa, kim kimdan dunyoga kelganini bilib bo’lmaydigan holatga kelib qolinar edi”.
Abu Zarr roziyallohu anhudan rivoyat qilinadi:
“…Alloh sizlar uchun sadaqa qilib beradigan narsa bermadimi?! Har bir tasbeh sadaqadir, har bir takbir sadaqadir, har bir hamd sadaqadir, har bir tahlil sadaqadir, amri ma’ruf sadqadir, nahiy munkar sadaqadir. Biringizning jinsiy yaqinligi ham sadaqadir”, dedilar (Nabiy s.a.v.)
“Yo rasululloh! Birimiz shahvatini qondirsa, unga bunda ajr bo’ladimi?”, deyishdi.
“Aytinglar-chi, agar u o’shani haromga qo’ysa, unga gunoh bo’larmidi? Shuningdek, agar uni halolga qo’ysa, bu uning uchun ajr bo’ladi”, dedilar.
Muslim rivoyat qilgan.
“… (kelinning) faqat hasabu nasabiga ishonish ham yaxshilikka olib kelmaydi. Ota-ona, bobo-momolari yaxshi odamlar bo’lsa, juda ham yaxshi, lekin ular o’z uylarida qoladilar, kuyovnikiga kelinning o’zi keladi…”
“(Nikohdagi) iyjob va qabulda ishlatilgan iboralar abadiylikni ifoda qilishi shart. Agar bu iboralar vaqtinchalikni ifoda qilsa, nikoh bog’lanmaydi…” (bunda ba’zi bir adashgan qavmlarning fahsh ishlardan oldin soxta nikohdan o’tib, “ishi bitgandan keyin” uch taloq qo’yib, go’yoki shariat chegarasidan chiqmagan bo’lib ko’rinishga urinishlari yodga tushadi).
Ko’pchilik kuyovto’ralar kelinga mahr berish kerakligini eshitishgan-u, uning qanchaligini bilishmaydi. Ushbu kitobda bunga ham aniq javob bor: “Mahrning (ENG) ozi o’n dirhamdir. O’n dirham bir dinorga teng keladi. Bu- nisobga yetgan molning yigirmadan biri deganidir”. (Bu hozirgi pulimizga chaqqanda 1 800 000 bo’ladi.)
“Faqat sog’-salomatlik holatida ota-onaning ziyoratiga bir haftada bir marta er ruxsat bermasa ham borishga, agar ular bemor bo’lsalar, keragicha borishga ayolning shar’iy haqqi bor”.
“Avvalgi momolarimiz rizq-ro’z topish uchun jo’nab ketayotgan erlariga: -Harom kasb qilmang. Allohdan qo’rqing. Biz ochlik nochorlikka chidaymiz, lekin do’zaxning azobiga chiday olmaymiz- der ekanlar”.
“… rivoyatda- Ayol kishi (qiyshiq) qovurg’adan yaratilgandir. U sen uchun bir yo’lda mustahkam turmas. Agar sen undan egriligicha huzurlansang, huzurlanib qolding. Agar uni to’g’rilayman desang, sindirasan…- deyilgan”.
Abu Hurayra roziyallohu anhudan rivoyat qilinadi: “Nabiy s.a.v. - Alloh rashk qiladi. Mo’min ham rashk qiladi. Allohning rashki -mo’minning Alloh harom qilgan narsasini qilmog’idir- dedilar.
“… tarbiya mas’uliyati bardavom bo’ladi. Zotan, ota-onaning farzand ne’matiga haqiqiy shukrlari ham aynan tarbiya mas’uliyatini sharaf bilan ado etish orqali yuzaga chiqadi”.
Kitobda yuqoridagi kabi hikmatlar shunchalik bisyor-ki, har birini yozish uchun kitobni boshdan adog’ ko’chirib chiqish kerak. Yaxshisi, o’zingiz kitobdan baxtiyor oilangiz bilan birga bahramand bo’ling.
Kitob “O’zbekiston Respublikasi Vazirlar Mahkamasi huzuridagi Din ishlari bo’yicha qo’mitaning 2020 yil 9 noyabrdagi 5550-raqamli xulosasi asosida chop etildi”.
Praise only suitable to his Majesty be to Allah, The Able and The All-Wise who created man from soil and created man’s couple from him so that he could find peace and who willed they were connected through the ties of marriage.
The book begins with the elegant words mentioned above, covers all aspects of building a family and keeping it worthy, and gives not only religious-Islamic, but also practical, strategic and psychological instructions, which anyone who applies it in practice will find benefit, God willing. The topic of divorce is covered in such a wide and detailed manner that anyone who truly understands and feels its responsibility, does not even think of even uttering the word "divorce".
"If there was no marriage, it would be impossible to know who was born from whom."
It is narrated from Abu Dharr, may Allah be pleased with him: "...Hasn't Allah given you something to give as alms?! Every tasbih 📿 is a charity, every takbir is a charity, every praise is a charity, every tahlil is a charity, an amri ma’ruf is a charity, and a nahiy munkar is a charity. Making love with your spouse is also a charity," said (prophet Muhammad).
"O Messenger of Allah! If one of us satisfies his lust, will he be rewarded for it?'' they asked.
"Tell me, would it be a sin for him if he put that in the haram? Also, if he makes it halal, it will be a reward for him," he said. Narrated by Muslim.
"... relying only on the pedigree (of the bride) does not lead to good either. It is very good if the parents and grandparents are good people, but they stay at home, and the bride herself comes to the groom's house..."
"The expressions used in the (marriage) acceptance must express eternity. If these phrases express the temporary, the marriage will not be bound..." (this reminds me of some misguided peoples who try to pretend that they have not crossed the limits of the Sharia by entering into a fake marriage before committing adultery, and "after the end of the affair" by filing a triple talaq).
Many bridegrooms have heard that they have to give mahr (a dowry) to the bride, but they don't know how much it is. There is a clear answer to this in this book: "The amount of the smallest dowry is ten dirhams. Ten dirhams are equal to one dinar. This means one-twentieth of the wealth that has reached nisab." (That would be 1 800000 sum for our current money.)
"Only in the case of health, a woman has the right to visit her parents once a week, even if her husband does not allow her, and if they are sick, she has the sharia right to go as often as necessary."
"Our mothers used to say to their husbands who were to earn a living: - Don't do haram work. Fear Allah. We can endure hunger and helplessness, but we cannot endure the torment of hell."
"... in the narration it is said that - A woman was created from a (crooked) rib. She will not stand firmly in one way for you. If you enjoy her as she is, you have enjoyed it. If you say you will fix it, you will break it..."
It is narrated from Abu Hurairah, may Allah be pleased with him: "The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said - God is jealous. A believer is also jealous. God's jealousy is a believer's doing what God has forbidden.
"... the responsibility of education is continuous. After all, parents' true gratitude for the blessing of their children comes out by fulfilling the responsibility of upbringing with honor."
There are so much wisdom in the book that you have to copy the book from beginning to the end to write each one. Better yet, enjoy the book with your happy family.