Try not to stress over being super coy or getting her "pulled in", simply ask the screwing inquiry… "Would you like to hang out at some point?" And likewise, make it OBVIOUS why you need to spend time with her. Tell her you aren't searching for another companion… "I realize this is irregular, however I believe you're extremely charming. Would you like to hang out at some point?" Stop agonizing over sitting tight for the "great" time, since it will never come. Rather, face your feelings of trepidation now.