It’s Simple If You Know How

by @ilham
It’s Simple If You Know How

I don’t know how you feel about women giving you their undivided attention, laughing at your jokes, and having you on their mind even when you’re not around…

To me, that’s the result of knowing how to attract women well.

You see, attracting women naturally can be simple!


Because attraction can happen instantly.

When you see a girl and a girl sees you, and she likes what she sees, there’s that spark.

There’s interest. And curiosity. All in just a split second, before you even had the chance to say a single word.

That, my friend, is the start of attraction.

Love at first sight? Not exactly.

It’s more like an attraction at first impression. And you can use that to your advantage.

You won’t need to use any tricks, sneaky tactics, or do anything “weird”. You use what you already have to make a favorable impression on her. How?

Think of it like this: Let’s say someone wants to take a picture of you and she only has one chance to do that. What do you do so it comes out great? You present your best side, right?

Same is true with women.

You just have to be attractive or interesting enough to pass that initial snap judgment when she first becomes aware of your existence (which can happen without you even noticing).

Look, first impressions happen at about 13 milliseconds. That’s less than a second. That’s faster than a blink of an eye — which is 100 to 400 milliseconds. So you better be prepared, every time.

That is your first hurdle to attracting women. And the first area you need to examine when no woman checks you out or even gives you a second glance or ignores you as if you don’t exist.

Because… that is exactly what happens when you don’t take advantage of that less-than-a-second chance you’ve been given to get a girl to form a strong opinion of you.

And that’s not all.

You Only Have One Shot At This

You see, most meetings in life happen only once. You get one chance to capture someone’s fancy, most of the time. That’s it. If you don’t make it count… it is ultimately lost forever.

That’s why you’ll hear most people call it a “chance meeting”. Once you miss that opportunity, it’s gone. Poof.

And, if you’re not properly taking advantage of the power of first impressions, if you don’t snag her interest at those crucial split second, you’ll have more work to do (later) if you want to get her interested.

Don’t Make It Harder For Yourself

And it doesn’t matter where you try to meet women — streets, subway, coffee shop, book store, club, party, school, college, workplace, or anywhere else.

You’ll have to woo her. Charm her. And chase her, instead of the other way around — girls chasing you. You could have saved the time and skipped all that and went straight to the good part. The part where she’s doing all the work for you.

So to make things easy for yourself, let’s get this one out of the way first.

How do you…

May 4, 2018
by @ilham